Save the Women!

The story of an escape

Posted in child abuse,child bride,Islam,politics,rape,religion,The Evil that Men do,women by Save the Women! on October 19, 2010

beating women is considered a duty for many Islamic men. This is not unique, Many Imams preach this every friday.


Free Samar!

Posted in Uncategorized by Save the Women! on October 19, 2010

Samar Badawi is a Saudi women who has done nothing wrong in any way. Her only problem is a father who dislikes her, and a judicial system which is not based on laws, but on the personal opinions of a judge.

Samars father abused her physically and mentally. She married, had a son, but her husband also beat her up and she managed to divorce him. (Of itself this is quite an achievement in Saudi )

She is now imprisoned indefinitely for the crime of ”disobedience to her father”.
There are a lot of Saudi people who are upset by this unfair treatment and are trying everything in their power to help this woman.
The best thing they can do is make this case as public as possible.
In the end it will probably have to be some royal or the king who can issue a release for her.

This is what Saudi Jeans wrote about this case:

Samar Badawi has always struggled with her father. He abused her verbally and physically, and even after she got married and had a son of her own, he kept interfering with her life. She got divorced, and decided to live with her brother. The father tried to sue his son and daughter, who was taken to a women’s shelter thanks to an order from Prince Mishal bin Majed, the mayor of Jeddah.

The father did not stop there. He tried to sue Samar again, but the case was dismissed. After staying in the shelter for sixteen months, she sent a letter to the mayor asking for permission to live with her son. The mayor accepted her request, and asked the police to protect her from the father.

Samar filed a lawsuit to lift her father’s guardianship, and the court ruled in her favor. The father filed a “filial ingratitude” complaint against her. When she went to challenge the complaint, “the judge pledged to teach her obedience and flog her himself.” Despite the previous court rulings and her father’s documented abuse, and even a royal order from Prince Khalid al-Faisal, governor of Makkah, to send her back to the shelter, the judge sent her to prison.

Samar told the Financial Times that the judge thinks a woman must submit to her father, regardless of how abusive he is. “Conservative judges hate the government’s women’s shelters because they empower women. They call them brothels,” she said.

This was six months ago. It was only last week that Samar and her lawyer decided to go public with the case. Since the local newspapers won’t pick up a sensitive story like this one, they went online. With help of fellow blogger Fouad al-Farhan, they set up a blog where they told Samar’s story and uploaded all the documents of her case. The case was also heavily discussed on Twitter, where users in Saudi Arabia used the hashtag #samar to denote their tweets about it.

While Samar enjoyed a lot of support from most users on Twitter, there have been some people who defended the judge, saying the case is being used to attack the Saudi judicial system. Moreover, a blog was to “basically show how the people responsible for the news breakout are not credible, liberal westernizers,” according Lou K.

Earlier today, Samar’s lawyer Waleed Abu Alkhair tweeted that the Supreme Judicial Council has opened an investigation into the case, anticipating a resolution in the next few days.

Samar’s story is undoubtedly a disturbing, heartbreaking one. It’s surely nor over yet, but now that the case is — I hope — moving forward, let me take a moment to say two of things about this:

  • The case shows that despite all the promises and the billions of riyals allocated to reform the judiciary system, we are still so far away from anywhere near a true reform for this institution. It’s been three years, and we are yet to see any tangible progress.
  • While many people still like to question the power of web and social media to make a difference to our society, this case offers a good evidence that the influence of online tools can be effective. Remember, the story was not picked up by any newspaper in Saudi Arabia so far.

I salute Fouad, Waleed and the others who supported this case. It fills my heart with hope to see many of my countrymen and women speak up and refuse to ignore injustice. Our nation deserves better than this, and we should never settle for less.

Saudi judges come from Sharia schools. Sharia schools takes the men with the lowest grades in the country. If your grades are too low for any decent study your last option is Sharia school. These men then become judges. Saudi has virtually no codified system of  law. There is no jurisprudence in Saudi.

A saudi judge makes up any punishment he likes, based on his personal likes and dislikes. They generally do not like women. They do like bribes. They also really like to hand out lashings.

This is also something western women need to realise when they marry saudi men and go to live in saudi. You will be at the complete merci of the man who owns you by law. if you are treated badly, if you are abused and beaten, if your daughter is married off to an old man at 8 years, if you rae being kept from visiting you family and friends, there is no one who will help you in any way. The law does not exist. A judge will almost always rule in favour of the man unless you have immense wasta and or bribe money.